it irritates me when i see women put down other women for their preferences in hair and makeup. like if a bitch want to wear a 22 inch malaysian sew in with a contoured face and long eyelashes that is her business!!!!! u hoes kill me with that ‘she so fake. i bet it takes her forever to get ready in the morning’ type bullshit. like look, just because u may not wear much makeup or rock ur real hair, don’t put down the next bitch for doing her thang!!!!! growUp.org
I was talking to my gay friend about asexuality and he asked if I would ever change my mind about being asexual and I responded with, "I don't know if that's something I can control. would you ever change your mind about being gay?" and he's trying to convince me that homosexuality is in your genes while asexuality is psychological..?
Your friend is wrong, and your original response was exactly correct.
Asexuality is the same as any other sexuality; it is not a choice people are making. So if asexuality is psychological, then his homosexuality must also be. But if he is going to say that there is a biological determinant for sexuality (which there is), then he needs to accept that this applies to all sexualities.
What your friend is really doing is trying to erase your identity, but science has your back!
In short, your friend is being a bad friend, and deserves to be called out. I recommend that you explain to him that asexuality is not the same a celibacy or a choice, but is a sexuality as real as his own, and show him as much proof as you feel you need to in order to get your point across. But stand firm on the point that your sexuality is as real as his, knowing that you are correct. What he is doing to you is no different than homophobic people insisting that his sexuality is a “choice”, and if he won’t tolerate that, then you don’t have to tolerate it from him.
This is an intermediate recipe for those with some cooking experience
1/2 large yellow onion chopped 8-10 baby carrots chopped (about 1/2 cup) 2 cloves of garlic, minced 1/2 cup of peas (I used frozen) 1 pound of firm tofu or shiitake mushrooms or chicken free “chicken” strips 1 heaping tbs of vegan butter
once my sister got rejected for a job at a web design company that she really wanted to work for so that night she hacked into their website and redirected it to her blog and the next day the CEO called her and hired her on the spot so moral of the story: if at first you don’t succeed, hack their website and make them beg for mercy
The holocaust was 50 years ago and the Jews never bitch about it but slavery was 200 years ago and black people still use it as an excuse for their decline and criminality. Weird it's almost like they'd rather blame other people than take responsibility for themselves.
May 8, 1945, when the war in Europe officially ended, which you know would make that 69 years ago, so you’re wrong about when the holocaust was, for starters, and it’s still taught in public schools, people who were in it still talk about it and it’s generally treated in western society as a travesty, and used as the worst possible case of something that can happen, hitler is constantly brought up and used as the epitome of evil, things that happened during the holocaust are constantly brought up and used as examples of pique war crimes, etc.
December 6, 1865 was when slavery was abolished in the united states, which would have been 149 years ago, which is… not close to 200, which would again make your dates wrong, unsurprisingly since you can’t seem to get dates right at all as I’m assuming you don’t like to research things before you make claims, however, American Apartheid, AKA The “Separate but Equal” doctrine was eventually overturned by the U.S. Supreme Court in the case of Brown v. Board of Education in 1954, which would make that 60 years ago, which is 9 years closer to us than the holocaust. Which means, yes, lots of black americans are still alive today who lived through the american apartheid.
I believe slavery in the world became entirely illegal in 2007, so that was 7 years ago, even you were likely around for that, human trafficking is an ongoing issue, more people are in slavery today than were in slavery in the 1860s, more people are in slavery in america today than were in slavery in the 1860s.
Redlining didn’t end until around the late 70s, but black communities still receive fewer loans than would make statistical reasonable sense today, so it’s still an ongoing problem affecting millions to this day, and the effects of redlining haven’t really been remedied.
Public schools are funded based on property value, and due to redlining, black neighborhoods property values are lower than majority white neighborhoods, making their schools have less funding on average than majority white neighborhood schools.
I mean literally you can just fucking google all this and realize you’re wrong as hell and have no business spouting bullshit you can’t back up. I mean this shit is basic stuff you can fucking google, your dates are wrong, your time stamps are hella’ wrong, and I find it interesting that you place the holocaust nearer to our current time than in actuality, and you place slavery further from our current time than in actuality, gonna go ahead and correctly assume that’s just straight up racism going on.